Good advice but hard to do, you know? I am doing my best to disconnect and not to think about things. I just keep chugging along. Hard when I am alone, it brings it all up, especially in the middle of the night when kids are away. That is the hardest.


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08