Truly Piecing once and for all!

[Heartbroken]

Well we went to our 1st post session and I finally am getting this dialogue thing. It's really about understand each others feelings and NOT trying to solve a problem. Me, the problem solver just wants to fix things now and that is not where we are at YET. Dialogue is letting us build trust and break down the walls we have we need to do this B4 we can truly start working on the issues...

Boy - it was like a big light bulb went on for me. I am more relaxed and now understand the goal for dialogue. I feel I need to slow down and truly get back to those baby steps...I have to get my H to believe in us again and I think that will only happen when he lets his guard down. H says he doubts my changes are for real and he's having a hard time accepting them. Well I need to prove him wrong. So the PMA gal is back in full swing!!

Happy Monday everyone! Remember change is good - if we are not changing then we are DEAD!! LOL!