My W wanted me to file.. my W wanted me to move out.
You know what... I didn't do any of those things because it wasn't what I wanted.
I simply told her "I'm not ready to call it quits... if you are then that's fine."
bump this up....
She is ready to call it quits. She will be filing and she will want me to sign. But I am really not ready. But I know I will get if you loved me then you would want me to be happy again. I do love her but Im just not at that point yet. I mean I still want a relationship with her, married or Divorced and Im afraid that if I do not sign the papers then I will not have that relationship.
I asked her last week that I needed to talk to her and if I can come up to talk to her..She said no because she had to work all weekend. Well it looks like she lied again. She stayed in a hotel near Cleveland and she also purchased a plane ticket, It says Tulsa, Ok but not sure if that is where she plans to go..I found this out because she used our joint checking acct to pay for everything. She did put money in the acct though. Should I confront her about this or just let it go???