Thanks for the philosophical "couch talk". Last week W was complaining on how hard it was to get over a cold when she wasn't sleeping well (on the couch). My first urge/response was a De-Da-DE. Next was a "here's your sign". However I used good DB approach and validated and stayed non judgmental. But I did have to go quickly in the other room.
Getting back to what you said. You are right, I do feel that this thing is far from over and some day I will look back at this and realize that it was a learning experience. I know some day the "tape will be rolled back", I'm glad I'll just be there as a viewer and won't have to answer for it.
For many years my stubbornness has paid off, I never thought it would be used as a force for good. However it's nice to know that it can be for something as noble as saving a M. As long as I have this "gift" and W does not loss her spiritual goals/gifts, I think we can make this work.
