DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT....SHOW ME THAT YOU GIVE A S*** ABOUT WHAT THIS IS DOING TO d
If you are 'fine' and 'have moved on' why spend so much energy being pissed at me. I am trying to detach from you so your thoughts and actions do not affect me so much. This is one of the reasons why I don't want to be around you....you and your anger/hostility. You might not actually _be_ angry but Little Mr Thundercloud that hangs over your head affects people around you. People whose lives don't intersect much with yours can afford to shrug and turn away and not deal with you until they have to. I don't get that luxury. Everything you do permeates my life....how do I get over you? 17 years of enmeshment....how do I get it to stop, how do I get healthy, how do we get to have a healthy relationship either together or not?
