Do I think he's capable of learning from this? Actually, yes I do. xh has learned that his behavior 2-3 years ago was inappropriate for a married man
SOo... he decided to drop the "married man" part, but keep the same behaviours?
PS: your behaviours sound more than "boyfriend". sounds more like "married people" to me too. apart from the whole owning separate places to live thing.
PPS: I thought you said, that he claimed, he wouldnt be having sex with both of you without telling you?
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle