Is there a reason you feel the need to move things along right now? If there isn't a good one, let it ride for just a bit. It can't hurt you.
As for counseling, bring it up only if it seems appropriate and in context (otherwise it'll seem like you're pushing). If it does come up, just say you want to have someone with some training help make sure the two of you discuss matters and address issues in a productive way. If you do not have a counselor that meets Michele's criteria of being marriage-minded and solutions-oriented, then take any intervening time as an opportunity to find one that is. The Divorce Remedy has a couple sections on what to look for and avoid in a counselor. Making sure you have a good one is worth every bit of effort.
Good luck. You keep getting the "I want us to stay together" thing, which is good. Just don't fall into the trap of pushing it too fast. Bask in the glow for a bit and let her get used to the idea.
