Sandi The one thing that I know I am very sensitive (and defensive) about is the fact that all the men here seem to think it is my responsibility to make the first move. Right? But why? Because you are here posting. If your H was here posting,we would be telling thin the same thing. He has to make the first move.
Sandi OK I will tell your H to make the first move.
Did he hear me??????? NO!
Can you hear me???? YES.
Like Dom said, do it for you, yes for you. If you can't do it right now, that is OK.
I am not being critical, just want you to have what you want, even if it seems difficult.
I can't tell you how many times I did things that should have been done by BB because someone had to do them.
