Its been an interesting week. We had a huge discussion Wed about her moving out, where she was going, etc as well as me going into a big R talk, which I know was a big no no. I also know some of her friends had some really interesting 'talks' with her this week.
Now...whats interesting is she started to mention some 'noticing' comments about me. My appearance, clothing, etc.
I sort of 'detached' when I told her father that our M was completely over.
And...i GAL by going out of town this weekend with some buddies.
So what happens? she emails me that she's been noticing the changes in me, really appreciates them and all the effort I have made for her, and wants to remain home and put 100% effort into our relationship again. Downside is she says we are 'dating' and she is willing to work hard for 3 months on this. I take all this as a huge positive and am not concerned about the 'timeframe'...all I'm concerned with is continuing doing what I have been and trying to make progress each day. The deadline wont matter if I accomplish those goals. 'Dating' to me means she wants to do things and have fun with me. It's up to me to make it happen. My reply to her was that I was very excited but know we each have to work very hard to make it work and that I would be patient and take it slow.
So, yes...I have a smile on my face and am surprised. Very happy on this turn of events.
