You are not kidding... if he's there, I know he will flaunt it a little.

I know he's scared of me... he's already admitted as much.

At the very least.. I need to have my brother there. 6'5" 270. He can keep me in line.

I would imagine that if I request a friend or two be there in the case that he is, she would back off.

I would *HOPE* that she's at least intelligent enough to figure that out.