The one thing that I know I am very sensitive (and defensive) about is the fact that all the men here seem to think it is my responsibility to make the first move. Right? But why?
Even if there was no EA.
Even if there were no ED issues.
I would still say that you need to make the first move. Because of all of the following reasons:
1. Because he wont (and no, that is not a reason for you not to try either! )
2. Because you can only control your own actions, not his.
3. Because you DO CONTROL your own actions!
4. because if you do "get some", you know it will help you. you know this. You also know, that you arent expected to "feel" that this is true. You know, mentally, that "just doing it" (in a way that does not feel degrading to you), will get things flowing for you.
So... "just do it".
:P
The EA, and ED issues, are just more reasons, on top of the ones I have just said.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
