at church today, the pastor mentioned that statistics show the average first marriage lasts 5 years. is that ridiculous? My sitch happened close to that, and it looks like a lot happen around that time. my neighbor was one of them.

If you think about it, it's probably so common for Ds nowadays that no one gets the chance to really see if they can muddle thru the bad times. back in the day, people didn't just get a D when things got rough, and I bet that a lot of them would say 5 years was a tough time but they got thru it. who knows, just speculating.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."