ladybug:
"doing 180s", and "last resort technique" are DIFFERENT THINGS. that's why they have different names ;\)

"doing 180s" isnt about "not paying attention to him".. UNLESS you have been smothering him.


If you havent been showing him attention/appreciation over the last year... "doing a 180", would actually be, showing him attention and appreciation.

and so on, for the other aspects of your relationship.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle