Learning to Trust

[LuvMyHusband]

thanks everyone for the advice. I'm already regretting talking to him about the "openess" that I would like to have in our M. He obviously isn't ready for that as he doesn't trust me either. Vicious cycle huh? I'm realizing that with my H everything is going to have to go slowly as he doens't like to feel in any way that he is being rushed, pushed, controlled or having things demanded from him. I really didn't think I was being demanding or controlling since I was just asking for openess so that trust could be rebuilt. the advice has been great and I appreciate it. He caught a cold while he was here so isn't feeling well right now. I know I can't control what will happen but I am so worried that he won't be back next weekend. Part of me feels like he doens't want to work as hard to save our M as I do.