Hi, I'm a pretty humble person. Lord knows I ain't no super model. I truly believe in the proverb "What you don't see is hidden under the skin and it may be more important than physical beauty". What makes a person beautiful is not their looks. It lies in their heart and soul.
But from what I know of this OW, she doesn't have much there either. But I'll be fair and say this sitch sure has not given her the chance to show her true colors -- or maybe it has. Part of what really hit me the most on D-Day was the fact that it was her. I remember saying, "OMG, her?!" My mind was reeling. I guess I'm still trying to make sense of it, but can't. Does social status or level of attractiveness make people good or bad? No. I just had a hard time dealing with it. And I feel degraded on some level because I can't.
I guess it doesn't matter who it is... it never makes sense.
"What you don't see is hidden under the skin and it may be more important than physical beauty". What makes a person beautiful is not their looks. It lies in their heart and soul.
You are right Joie - beauty is only skin deep. But, their hearts and souls are ugly right now as well because they are involved in these affairs.
LO, I see your point. Part of me really feels sorry for the OW in my sitch. Her marriage is in the toilet. Overall, her life has been that way as well for quite awhile. She is a sad, lonely person living a miserable life. Only she can turn things around for herself and stop living a life full of deceit. It's so sad -- we only get one chance at this, you know?
I didn't get any pictures of me since I was the one behind the camera, but I went as Commissioner Gordon and escorted my little dynamic duo trick-or-treating. We had a very good and memorable time.
