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lovelyolive #1253104 11/05/07 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted By: lovelyolive
I know my H has "tried" to end it with ow numerous times and I've seen some of her pathetic texts to him. "I'm not doing very well with this" "I need you to tell me in person that it's over" "If we walk away now, we will never know how happy we could be together"


First, yes, how pathetic!! She's being desperate.

Second. Yuck. Gross. I'm sure my H is getting the same spew.

Third. Have to say it again ... HOW PATHETIC!!

JoieDeVivre #1253219 11/05/07 02:56 AM
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LO, I told H the same thing, we ALL got hurt here, no need to worry about that one.

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Olive,

I just noticed that you changed your name. Nice choice. That is a good improvement.

Sara #1253300 11/05/07 04:48 AM
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LO,
Our husbands seemed to be so worried about the OW. While he was over here the other night telling me about her hearing that he was playing us both she called twice. Of course, he said I'm not answering that. I guess he felt sorry for her because I believe he is leaning towards her again. You are right we can't go on like this forever, but it so hard to know when enough is enough.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
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Yoyowife #1253459 11/05/07 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By: Yoyowife
You are right we can't go on like this forever, but it so hard to know when enough is enough.


Wait till Feb. We can give them the ultimatum at the same time. If they chose to leave We can meet and have a "Starting a new chapter in our lifes party"


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know
lovelyolive #1253513 11/05/07 01:47 PM
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Lovely Olive,

I never did get an email from you did I????

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Dr LOve #1253551 11/05/07 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted By: husband

Wait till Feb. We can give them the ultimatum at the same time. If they chose to leave We can meet and have a "Starting a new chapter in our lifes party"


H,
What is the significance of February? Do you have papers filed or is this a date you've set as your limit?


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Heartbroken #1254270 11/06/07 12:38 AM
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Originally Posted By: Heartbroken
Lovely Olive,

I never did get an email from you did I????

HB


HB - I sent you one a few days ago.

So, here's something kind of weird that I'm sure means absolutely nothing. Just an observation I guess. I got a VERY early morning wake-up call from H today. Just to say good morning and ILY. hmmm.. THEN, I got about 6 or 7 tm's - just small talk - from him which is strange because he almost never texts me but that has always been his way of communicating w/ow. Just odd..

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lovelyolive #1254353 11/06/07 02:13 AM
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It may mean nothing, but on the other hand, perhaps he is really missing you! Maybe his time away has acted like a small separation for him -- maybe he is realizing what he will lose if he loses you! I would take it as a good sign!

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LO,

Please email me again - I never got it! debbydunn@iwon.com post in my sitch to let me know the email address to watch for.

About your H texting -did he know it was you he was texting? That would be a bad mixup!!!

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