I know my H has "tried" to end it with ow numerous times and I've seen some of her pathetic texts to him. "I'm not doing very well with this" "I need you to tell me in person that it's over" "If we walk away now, we will never know how happy we could be together"
First, yes, how pathetic!! She's being desperate.
Second. Yuck. Gross. I'm sure my H is getting the same spew.
LO, Our husbands seemed to be so worried about the OW. While he was over here the other night telling me about her hearing that he was playing us both she called twice. Of course, he said I'm not answering that. I guess he felt sorry for her because I believe he is leaning towards her again. You are right we can't go on like this forever, but it so hard to know when enough is enough.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
You are right we can't go on like this forever, but it so hard to know when enough is enough.
Wait till Feb. We can give them the ultimatum at the same time. If they chose to leave We can meet and have a "Starting a new chapter in our lifes party"
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Wait till Feb. We can give them the ultimatum at the same time. If they chose to leave We can meet and have a "Starting a new chapter in our lifes party"
H, What is the significance of February? Do you have papers filed or is this a date you've set as your limit?
So, here's something kind of weird that I'm sure means absolutely nothing. Just an observation I guess. I got a VERY early morning wake-up call from H today. Just to say good morning and ILY. hmmm.. THEN, I got about 6 or 7 tm's - just small talk - from him which is strange because he almost never texts me but that has always been his way of communicating w/ow. Just odd..
It may mean nothing, but on the other hand, perhaps he is really missing you! Maybe his time away has acted like a small separation for him -- maybe he is realizing what he will lose if he loses you! I would take it as a good sign!