C described OP as a symptom and I would think that advising it would be ok to continue to contact did not come from her.
In saying that, W tends not to lie (though these are her words and using the internet to contact OP is not lying!).
Little bit more R talk today. W was being pissy and I got fed up of it, so I bit back. She now doesn't 'fancy me', so I suppose that is much better than 'doesn't like me'.
Trouble was, talk got curtailed by kids (S7 asked why Mummy was crying and we had to lie).
Maybe it's me, but W keeps saying - 'You did this and that in the past' but when I pointed out that I hadn't since Christmas, she agreed. Sometimes I feel that I am on a pennance and it will take me years to go through the whole thing.