Well, uh....the conversation devolved into tears and name-calling on both sides.
xh has no clue that our "friendship" is a lot like acting married. No, really. When I told him that, he had the most clueless look on his face...
Ugh.
So, after the meltdown last night...xh suggested this morning that I write him a letter, print it, hand it to him, and then answer questions as he reads through. I had avoided the letter writing thing in the past, as he had always said he didn't 'get' it, but this was his suggestion.
I think I will take some time to put it together. We both got way too reactive last night.