Thanks, I will not fill up your thread with my problems after this so I would appreciate if once in a while you can take a look at mine "where do I belong"
Just to answer your questions though Yes My W had an affair with her XBF .What is strange is he was married and having an affair with my When I met her. I believe it was a one time thing but the A$$ hole took pictures and I found them and that is how I found out. He live in another state so it is not an ongoing thing P. As for out sex life it is non existent. Anyway I went through all the begging and pleading and snooping and everything else we all go through. That was 5 months ago. Since then I have sent her letters and notes. (We both still live in the dame house with our 10 yr old son). I have told nobody about what she did. What prompted her to write that letter was that I told her that since she won't talk to me about our R is it ok with her that I talk to her or my sister. That is why she wrote that. Since I received it I have not written anymore. She sleeps in my son's room and is very nice as room mates but I can't live this way too much longer. When I first found out about the XBF she took him to OUR time share. That kind of pissed me off so what I did was figure out all the times she used up and made my own reservations IN VEGAS. This will be the first time I have went somewhere by myself (well so far I may have company). But my plan is to just continue to give her space and work on my self. Then before I leave sit down with her and have the big R talk to find out if she want to work on our M or not. I Figure with us apart it will give us time to think. I will call her and see how things are going while I am away. Again sorry for high jacking your thread.
I'll go back to mine now.
Thanks Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
