And yes, OW is not our only problem. Like I said to H, "You took a bad situation that we BOTH created, and possibly made it unfixable by having an A, instead of coming to me".
So true lwb. W and I have had almost identical conversations. She always would bring up that OG is not the problem. I even talked about it in counseling, that I agreed OG wasn't the cause of the problem, but he was sure making it difficult to work on things in the present. She couldn't say too much to that.
