I have learned that ever after is a very long time. But we are getting along, and if that changes I hope we can be sane enough to apply the skills they taught us and help ourselves get back on track. I know it would be easy to convince him to do a refresher weekend if we ever needed it. We both really enjoyed the weekend. I don't really know anything about Imago, but so many people seem to balk at the priest being part of Retrouvaille, that I recommend it as a completely secular alternative. (I'm Jewish, and the priest's role did not bother me at all, but people are different.)