That does sound cruel. It is not even the same if and when you start seeing someone new because you are the one to help save your marriage and you are the one who is a mother first. Well, good for you actually. These are very admirable things.
I will try to get back onto Fly Lady because I am the opposite of you. I am not organized and I really need a secretary. I am not sure what to do with all of my daughter's stuff. There was the gift war between all the grandparents and now she has traditional dresses from many countries. My beautiful kids are mixed culture with maybe 4-6 ethnicities so now she has all this stuff from these countries. I feel like I cannot sell it. Sadly, I was hoping to have another baby. Right about now actually since my son is almost 3!!
Our stuf really is intertwined. Even the Halloween decor. We do Dias De Los Muertos and we have a skeleton for each of us and some relatives, I did not hang up my H's this year. I only put out three of everything. three pumpkins, three broomsticks, three dancing skeletons. That reminded me of yur new Christmas photo, new traditions. We are a family of three and we will have fun and be happy. maybe someday we will be four or even five???
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
