yes, for attention, I really believe that too! Again, there is nothing more important!

Yes and thank god for dads like you and Jar.. you guys are rare I think.

My H does love our kids, and I think its hard for him to leave a work so much, but he tries not to get caught up in that because someone has to pay the bills and we just get that Its better if im home with them, then with a sitter.

I don't like to bug him about how much he works, because frankly he has to. so that wouldn't be fair. He is very loving and affectionate towards them, and say ILY every day to them, thank the lord.

tal

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.