Is she still at her mom's house?? I don't know how she stays away from her children, and having them cry on top of it, no way. Wild horses couldn't keep me from my kids, they are such a part of me, it would be like my leaving my arms at home.
I know there are lots of women out there who behave like your W does, with their children that is and I just don't get it. I would cut off my own leg just so I wouldn't hurt them. Its a mystery to me. There just isn't anything more important than them. I know not all people feel that way, but its just so hard to understand how you Couldn't feel that way!
Just be there for them, is so so important, you are doing great job. This age is so critical.
Keep up the diplomatic side of yourself, it will keep her wondering, and hopefully she will "snap" out of it.
You have a good sunday also!
tal
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