yeah, its funny, everyone seems to go thru it in some manner or other. I did some of it in the spring and early in the summer...rearranged furniture, purged some stuff in the basement. it was great. after h moved out, it slowed down a bit...just some here and there, then I got busy and stopped. now I'm ready to start up again. i'm not really dividing our stuff yet...mostly reorganzing, going thru baby stuff and dividing it out as to where it is going, that kind of thing. when I decorate for christmas in a month, I will do some dividing out then...he has some ornaments and such from childhood I'm sure he will want, if not this year, then next year.
a lot of what I am doing is purging old files, and reorganizing the ones that are to be saved. everything in its place and all that. plus using my shredder is fun!
well, back from the grocery store and off to the gym.
whatever on the football (hey, there's a silver lining, no football!)
ugh.
as for the co-dependency thing, h and I are both guilty of it. I, on the other hand, recognize and am working to end that path of life. he and ow are clinging as good as two co-dependents can. it could work out for them for life, who knows. or it could end. it really has nothing to do with me at this point, except as to how it affects my children. Honestly, yeah, I'd prefer her not to be in my life, which she will be if they stay together. but nothing I can control or influence, so stepping back from it and not going there any more.
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