Update: After coming to grips with the reality that I was actually going to be divorced, she starts with the contact. At first it is simply a fwd'd email. Sounds innocent enough, right? Well, it would be if not for the fact that it she hasn't done this except onece since we separated 2 months ago. I do not respond as I am trying to get on with my life and start a new one without her (doing quite well thus far if I do say so myself, but I digress). So 2nite I am watching a college football game with my grandfather and uncle (another way that I am GAL) and I get a txt msg from her: "Whata game. :)". She has not initiated contact in months. She had responded to my txts in the past but only one time initiated txt'ing. What tha heck is up? I am moving on with my life trying to put her out of my mind and when I do....BAM! She contacts me. I kept it friendly and lighthearted. In the back of my mind I was thinking: "Didn't you just file for divorce earlier this week?"
I still want her back but I had given up hope for us. Why would she contact me? Guilt? Remorse? I have no idea. I am not getting my hopes up. Any advice on what I should do? I did not immediately respond to her initial txt but she quickly responded to mine. I was nice and acted as if. What could her contacting me possibly mean and how should I respond in the future? I welcome anyones advice. I am desparate. Thanks.
