Learning to Trust

[LuvMyHusband]

Hi Ladies,
Yes, I do know enough. What's bothering me is that I know he has another aol account that he's not telling me about. I've asked if he has other accounts and he told me no. But I saw his bank statement that shows the withdrawals. Btw, he asked me if I was canceling my email account that is just mine. I said I would. I feel that he should do the same. Additionally, today when he left he took some lingerie that he had bought without telling me about and hid in our closet. It's been there since June. He took it with him today. Why??? He did that once before and told me that he got rid of it.

I haven't forgotten what I have done to him and how much I have hurt him. I'm doing everything I can to make the changes so that it never happens again. And, I am conscious of his feelings. But...trust does not happen when someone isn't being honest and open. If he isn't doing anything wrong, why should he care if I have his passwords, etc. He has mine and I don't care. I'm not doing anything wrong. I don't need gory details. Just honesty. If you have another account, own up to it, and then cancel them. That's all it takes. Anyway, that's where I'm at.