What do I do with her?

[Mike is Hurtin']

If you guys haven't talked about the event, is it still understood that it's a date?

I suppose it is technically still a date, since I bought the tickets (she's well aware of this fact).

I think lwb has the right idea. Me personally... I'd invite a friend.. make them pay their half so it's not a "date" if it's a female.

This is exactly what I thought about doing - I'm just nervous because I know I'm in the "angry" stage right now, and I don't want to do something just out of spitefulness or vindictiveness.

Right now, I'd like for nothing more than to rip into her with a sound verbal thrashing about what she's put me through for the past two month. Unleash a torrent of expletives describing exactly what I think of her. It's taken incredible restraint to *not* do that, and I'm pretty sure I can get through this stage without doing that ... it's just so hard to know what's right, and what simply feels right at the time.

-- Mike