Sara, guess you are right, too much information can be poisoning as well. We need to know when to stop asking for details and I assume it's that time when you are comfortable about not snooping around anymore. In addition you reminded me that our mistakes need reflection from ourselves and forgiveness too. It's a good action to work on and a good thought to help through pitfalls.
I will hijack (hope you don't mind LMH) your advice.
