She sounds like she is screwed up. I feel sorry for her son. No relationship can bve healthy if it begins from an affair. She will always have to watch her back and she will never trust him. He may stray again so maybe you will see that gettig out is a good thing. My dad's second wife was the OW and when he ran off with his third wife, the second wife, the OW used to call my mom balling her eyes out. SO my mom had to console her H's OW and say what did you expect? This is what he does over and over. Yes. he is a jerk. No one can change him. My mom had to say this to the woman who snuck around with my dad and then secretly married him!!!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."