CVA - Not sure I have figured anything out?

[Not Much Left]

Hi Puddle
Yes, of course it is shiny, very nice ring. I am wearing my ring as I am still married so...when we are D'd, I will take it off. I do not wear it when working out and to be honest, dont always put it back on right away (now) either.

What do you think of me moving back in? I am sure that kills all chances if there are any so....continuing my house search. Not sure how much I want to spend now. Now it just looks like I am trying to take advantage and will get nasty in a legal dispute almost no matter how much I spend till we are D'd. I brought this up w/ W yesterday during the talk and she says "we can work that out later"

Pretty much said, "Really, later? When is later in your mind, when you decide its a good time to talk about it? You want "space" and agree the kids can come over when I get a bigger place (so nice of you BTW) but you never talk about anything."

In any event, feel a little uncertain now on that front. Of course I can pretty much do anything I want and deal with it later, I just dont feel like fight some dumb "arse" attorney who has no idea what he's in for BTW (recall my comments about me and my lawyer if you have been reading this) over the financials. If it were up to me, I would not hire an attorney at all. Now my W has almost dictated how it will go, she spends money to respond to everything I say cuz she is incapable of handling anything herself. She did not even read the papers before the guy was supposed to serve them to me at work.

C