CVA - Not sure I have figured anything out?

[Not Much Left]

Finally at home in front of my computer. W went to lunch w/ her friends (tells me as we are leaving the soccer game, Ms. Great Planner) and says, "is that OK?" Im like, "whatever"... Then she calls me to tell me she is going to be home to get D11 to a haricut appt. Of course she will be late, she was busy trying on clothes w/ BFF. Again, "whatever". Felt like saying, "why the F are you calling me?" This is bizarre (is that 2 zz or 2 rrs?) Anyway, told her last night/ yesterday I need more than 10 mintues planning times and BAM, another day of miss flighty going about her day like the world revolved around her.

I suggest all of you reading this watch The Real Housewives of Orange County coming up on ABC (new shows). This is my W and her friends, fantasy world, "uhhh, duh, where is my mercedes or whatever", "Ill just get a divorce, itll be fine..."

What is unbelievable to me is these women are supposed to be Christian. I think they selectively leave out the God hates Divorce part, just my thought for today.

I am going to get all my anger out here, ok?

Funny part is their is actually some anxiety lifted as at least I know what she wants. Sort of. A D for sure, then as long as I play nice, everything works out for her....see, perfect, Ds are fine, no long term effects. She moves on, I move on, kids are flexible. Fantastic.....

Oh yeah, ladies, why would she still be wearing her ring? That is odd to me. You file for Divorce, yet you still want people to know your married? I swear, I will never understand women.

C