you know, I have told him that very thing, what if this were completely turned around, how would he feel. He agreed. I'm not ready yet to tell him I've been snooping though. I even wrote to Michelle about this, she told me to lighten up about it. H told me this OP is not loyal to him at all too. I had hoped that as H and I got closer that his "need" for her would dwindle. She's got so much baggage, even H has said that and a 4 year old daughter and I know and he has said too that he doesn't want to go back to that now that our kids are almost 15 and 18. Time for more prayers I guess.
