Why is it that something that scares me so, why would I even imagine that I could go it alone or at least to this point? Miss IC is my heart and soul but why do I continue to hurt her by leaving her out?
Like Lil says, you went the macho route. My father does this too...tells my H about some setbacks and tells him not to tell me. And I don't tell him how I am doing emotioanlly. Everybody is protecting one another, in some sort of dysfunctional dance.
It's good you are recognizing how it must feel from your W's point of view. And if you didn't, I have my very own whip for this purpose!
Miss IC, now where did you go? Get that pretty heart shaped a$$ here this instant!
