I feel strange that some how my thread started something. But reading some of your posts here, And what a wise man told me once , ( and I mean this nicely)
"throw the blame game in the fcking garbage and ask yourself..."what can I do to make my marriage better? What is my wife lacking that I have not been providing to her?"
these are wise words.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
