Ellie, he swears up and down that it is nothing, that he does not want a D from me, holds me like there is no tomorrow. I did get it out in the open the other night, not as far as him knowing I can read his emails though. He tells me our sit. is so much better than it used to be. I do have a habit of over reacting to way too much stuff. we talked again a little yesterday and he told me he was M to me, sleeps with me and does not have time for an affair and doesn't want one. Your response of it sounding like it is starting up again, funny thing is it was always one sided, his side and I guess I should be glad about that because if she had encouraged him I think my job would have been a lot harder. If I asked him if it was starting up again he's say there is noting to start back up. Her emails to him are very benign and generic. There haven't been any calls between them on his cell phone for months. I will keep my eyes wide open. Lisa
