Ellie, your post caught my eye because of the OW issue. My story if you care is also here on "Piecing" it's titled 'bomb dropped 2/21' and may be on page 4 by now. Anyway, EA-OW is still in the picture here, although H still insists she was/is only friend. They email each other now and I really hate it. He doesn't know that I know this and I can read them too. The thing is he lies about this, he tells me he hasn't written to her when I know he has because I've seen the emails. I was really disturbed yesterday when I read that he wrote to her "missin ya" (she wrote first that she missed him) and signed it 'LD', the L being for love and D is his first initial. Naive that I guess I am I thought those LD's were reserved for me. The thing is I know he never sees her because he is always home when he is supposed to be and always at work when he is supposed to be and he wouldn't have her come there because it is a very small company and everyone knows ME. He'd get busted. It's the lying that is driving me crazy. He looks me right in the eye and lies to me. Other than all of that he is loving and attentive and very affectionate towards me. He doesn't want a D anymore. he told me he loved me last month, but as far 'being in love' he doesn't know what that is anymore. I killed it good in him. This is a complete 180 from what he was telling me a year ago. Then , he told me he held out no hope for us at all. Sorry to hijack your post. Lisa
