Here's the hitch - All of the other women that will be there are happily divorced and either remarried or engaged. However, I'm not going to stress about it. Even if they help validate her feelings and plans, in the end, it his her choice.
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MCC Dude,
This is may not be a bad thing. A lot of divorced people regret what they did. I am sure with a few women there one will tell her she wishes she worked it out. As for pushing her to go......I don't know. I would let her know it is ok with you but packing her bags and directions can make things more confusing for her. Don't worry about the back slide. the important thing is that you see it was your doing.
Time away is good but be carefull. When My W said she was spending the weekend with her GF "she" had a penis
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know