Hi,
I'm a pretty humble person. Lord knows I ain't no super model. I truly believe in the proverb "What you don't see is hidden under the skin and it may be more important than physical beauty". What makes a person beautiful is not their looks. It lies in their heart and soul.

But from what I know of this OW, she doesn't have much there either. But I'll be fair and say this sitch sure has not given her the chance to show her true colors -- or maybe it has. Part of what really hit me the most on D-Day was the fact that it was her. I remember saying, "OMG, her?!" My mind was reeling. I guess I'm still trying to make sense of it, but can't. Does social status or level of attractiveness make people good or bad? No. I just had a hard time dealing with it. And I feel degraded on some level because I can't.

I guess it doesn't matter who it is... it never makes sense.