see, I was always more angry at h. I wasn't invested in ow, I could care less about her, she's a skanky whore. but h, he broke vows, promises to me, he lied and betrayed me. my anger was definitely all about him. she's just gross, not worth it.
I feel exactly the same way. I am positive my H has lied to his OW. He says her friends are happy she is with a nice man. Ooo the email I could send, but I have learned my lesson. Or have I? Right, not about OP. They really are just the first random person who said, "Sure, why not, let's ruin someone's lif ethis year." I know it because my mom saw my H chase after three different girls before one finally took him in. It is horrible to admit coming from the wife and MIL, but I truly believe that is how it happenened and there is absolutely nothing special about these OP except for the fact that they will take in a vagabond loser without judgement. Low self esteem mired in addiction.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
