mk, its not a mlc to take care of yourself. it isn't. moving yourself forward is a good thing, not a crisis. nothing on your list even makes me think mlc.
my h used to be disgusted by people who had affairs, too. there was this big scandle last september (06) at the national sales meeting because his boss's boss (married, natch) was caught with another woman in the company. h was horrified. yet a month later, he started his own affair. funny how easy that was.
he told me last spring that when he was with her, he just didnt think about me, and when he was with me, he didn't think about her.
nice, huh?
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
