So, I've been thinking this morning about having that conversation with xh.
The one about how he's a wank, and is justifying his lack of commitment as 'protecting' me.
Okay, I'm feeling a little nasty this morning.
No, actually, I really am thinking of having that discussion. I mean, there was something last night, but it also occurred to me...that all of that yelling and cursing at him I did last year actually sunk in at some level. Maybe my approach was wrong (I plead angry pregnant woman), but it still affected him.
I'm not sure if I will do so soon, but I do have several things I want to tell him. I want to make sure it's a productive talk, not just me telling him he's an idiot.