The conference was really good and it did help me and I am in finances.
I had an interesting turn of events. My SIL who H was talking to when he gave the phone to OW was so mad early in the evening. She and my H had been friends before he married me. Any way She calls me a 1:30am and is just crying and of course you think the worse. She was so mad a H she called him at OW house at 1:30Am and OW answered ( who SIL used to be friends with they went to school to gether) and said let me talk to my H. She then preceeeded totell him how mad she was that he would hand the phone to the OW when he was talking to her. That she needed to talk to him. She had had a few drinks. He told her he would come and talk to her when she wasn't drinking. She is so mad ddthat he would rub this in my face and now the other family members. She was telling me that I need to moiove that this has draug out way to long. WE have been up and down for the last 5 years. When he left and took those other jobs. But neither one of us wanted to get the divorce. But now he is living the life the way he wants so we must move on. I used to think I needed to wait financially but now mentally I think for everyone sake we must move on. Hes hurting the boys and everyone. They just don't see that it is wrong. So I had to calm her down because her Husband was gone for the night. Its kinda funny because she and I never got a long before we were in a family partnership. I think she has mellowed so much now and she is a caring person.
