Anyone reading this, all u guys out there especially. I asked W about living arrangements and me being there for the kids. "I need more space"
Pretty much says it all. I failed at this and Divorce papers are the result. Give them space, if you don't it is almost sure to fail.
If you don't already have an agreement for the kids, then now is a good time to start - If she's pulling out the D card, then you need to get ahead of her when it comes to taking care of your children.
I'm so sorry that it came to this stage. It's hard to lose hope when a major event happens, but maybe going through the process of the D is what W needs to do to comprehend what she is throwing away? There are numerous couples who reconcile during and after D has been filed - It may not be the nail in the coffin that you think it is.
