Here's a question for everyone (probably know the answer just wanted to get some feedback)

Earlier this week, W and I had a long discussion where I told her I was tired of this limbo land situation. Told her that if she was convinced that her heart was set on divorce then we should start moving in that direction. I asked if she would talk to her lawyer this week and find out about mediation.

Week has come and gone and she hasn't brought up the lawyer topic. Maybe she's not really ready? How does it look if I've drawn a line in the sand and don't hold her to it? Do I lose credibility / respect? Should I just keep my mouth shut? Like I've said before, I'm okay with the outcome if it is D, but I still don't think I could do the filing myself at this point.


M39
W37
M14
K 10 8
Bomb 7/07
S 4/08
D 6/09

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2nd