Now I've done it...again #5

[nephartiti]

Yup, I hear you. Things seem to go in cycles around here.

The more I think about it, the more I feel that Monday will be fine. I am not a threat to her in any way. The cops are not stupid. The one I spoke to on Friday said he was there when H and OW came. He didn't take the report, but he overheard everything. He saw through them. He said it was obvious. He told me not to worry too much--just be compliant when you come here, tell them what you have told me, and everything will be fine. He said he used to be a detective and handle these things. He wouldn't charge me with anything, if it was him. This is a matter that should be handled between the three of us, not wasting the court's time.

I didn't threaten her in any way. The only "threat" was to expose her and my H and ruin her reputation.

My H punched me in the face, did permanent damage to my mouth, and his charges got dropped. Of course, I didn't press charges. They are trying to press charges on me. They are going out of their way to try to get me in trouble.

I think it would have looked better for her if she had gone alone. The fact that my H was there with her made it obvious to law enforcement what was going on. Hopefully the detective I speak to will be of the same mind set.