Originally Posted By: morgan

h got on the phone and tried to be chatty and I just said bye and hung up. I know that was rude, I wasn't mean about it, I need to do that better next time. but I don't want to chat with him. no more nips from the bottle for me. not even uncorking it.


Hiya Morgan, what happens when you cut him off like that? Does he get mega pissed or does he understand? If I do that to my h he either pursues me till the cows come home to find out what my problem is (invariably it's to do with him) or he gets way p1ssed off and then I get a hostile and high and mighty h for the next few days.

*sigh* I don't want him back if he can't change these things about his behaviour. Though I don't think he thinks this is such a big deal. Fair nuff...it mightn't be a big deal for him, but it gives me such a bad feeling about our interactions that I just don't want to have anything to do with him. I'm feeling like the MLCer or WAW now!!?!


CMC

Me: 34
Him: 36
M: 10yrs
T: 17yrs
D: 6yo
S: 29/01/2007
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