Working at that bar must be so tough. I'm sure your mom will be apologizing after she sobers up. I totally understand having that intense emotional moment and calling your H. He deserved every word. Honestly, I don't think your H will waste his time doing what mine is doing. So don't worry about that. Still, if you are planning on filing, it is best to play nice, right? That's the advice anyway. I don't think many people manage it though. It is just too difficult in these sitches.
I didn't realize your H hadn't given you money. Doesn't he have a good state job now? What a schmuck! If/when you do file, that will all get straightened out. He won't have a choice.
MK, I hope you do break your rule. It would be so wonderful to have you there! Generally, I don't meet people from the internet, but I feel so comfortable with the people here. Plus, we will be in a group in public. You still have time to think about it
It sounds like you had a nice Halloween. Wow, H in the house. You are so brave and strong. I bet that meant a lot to your little ones!
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
