mk, I have yet to check out any dating sites and honestly don't think I ever will. mainly because I keep reading here that so and so's spouse (married) is on it, saying they aren't married and such. I have it in my head that everyone on it is married and looking to cheat. I told that to my friend (the therapist) and she said yeah, there is a lot of that on there. I'm sure there are single people, too, but it creeps me out. who knows, maybe when I'm ready to date, I'll think differently. for now, I don't even look.
as for meeting people, I think meeting random strangers is a bit scary, but groups are easier somehow. I like the way you said that, its just another portal. its true. it is.
celibacy. well, I'm not dealing too well with that one, obviously. it sucks. and it make me angry, to tell you the truth. woe to the man i finally choose to sleep with some day. I might just hurt him. lol.
I do take the edge off on my own. its not the same, but it helps. some. well, a little.
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