What a truly mindblowing post. There is a heck of a lot for all us to take away from it - thanks.
Jeff - although I don't make my way over here too much, I am sad about your loss. I had my MIL pass away over three years ago and I remember how bitter and angry W was towards me when I expressed my feelings on her passing. Frank is right - you will do the right thing...
Me 52, STBEX 52 D 17, S 12 M 20 years Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009
